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You could change just about anything about yourself—and I mean anything—and some people in your life just won’t see it. When these people look at you, it’s like they’re looking at the light of a dead star. They see what used to be there. They see what they expect to…

If you’re a freelancer, an independent contractor, or a gig worker, you know all too well how hard it can be to know what to charge for your services, not to mention the difficulty of covering your own insurance, retirement, vacation, and sick time. To help you know what to…

A Story about a Little Kindness that Made a Big Difference for Me I visited the rainforest in Ecuador a few years ago. The group I was with stopped at a café for lunch before entering the jungle. During that lunch, I managed to cut my finger while opening a…

How a Target Store Helped Me Become Aware of My Mind’s Insatiable Desires The Super Target near my house opened nearly 30 years ago. When it first opened, I’d never been in a store quite like it. It was so BIG – (at about 180,000 square feet, it’s roughly 80…

I’ve been reading Robert A. Johnson’s Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth In it, Robert explains “Inner work is the effort by which we gain awareness of the deeper layers of consciousness within us and move toward integration of the total self.”   Also, “Every person…

I have a theory that problems don’t exist—that anything we call a “problem” is just a judgment. If you’re okay with the weather where you live, it’s not a problem. If you like the food in your town, it’s not a problem. If you’re content with your spouse or partner…

Whenever you feel stuck or overwhelmed, one of two things are almost certainly true: 1) you don’t know exactly what you’re trying to accomplish, or 2) you DO know what you’re trying to accomplish, but you don’t know the very next step to take to get there. Having clearly articulated (written) goals…

Each of us lives according to a set of rules. I was reminded of this after reading an article titled “Man punches nurse in the face multiple times after his wife is vaccinated for Covid”. The man in the article might live by rules like, “My wife must have my…

Oliver Burkeman wrote a fantastic book called Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals. Adam Grant calls this “The most important book ever written about time management” and I will be interviewing Oliver about it on the School for Good Living Podcast. In it, Oliver explains how he used to be…

Last year, Tim Ferriss had Jerry Seinfeld on his podcast. Tim asked Jerry what he would include in a writing class if he were to teach one. Jerry answered by saying, “Well, I would teach [writers] to learn to accept your mediocrity. No one’s really that great. You know who’s great?…

Werner Erhard once said, “In life, understanding is the booby prize.” Google defines a booby prize as “a prize given as a joke to the last-place finisher in a race or competition.” Culturally, we strive to understand. We’re trained to understand, and rewarded for it. Science breaks systems down into…

“Never believe any thought you think about yourself that limits you in any way.” One of my teachers once gave me that instruction. He wrote it down, and I read it three times before I grasped it. There’s a lot in that lesson, namely that believing—or not believing—our thoughts is…

Dani Saveker is a master life coach who created Visual Synopsis, a site where she catalogs inspiring content from books she reads with the aim of making it simple, memorable and beautiful. Browsing this site, I find value in three ways. First, I’m inspired by the way that Dani combines…

The IPCC—the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change—just issued its latest report, and there’s a lot to be concerned about. You can see the full report here. For an overview of the report, check out Vox.com’s article: “The devastating new UN report on climate change, explained”. And, in case you feel…

Poet David Whyte loves to walk, and he invites you to walk with him. He offers a walking tour west of Ireland called Poetry, Myth & Music for the Soul, one in English Lake District called Compass Points: Setting Direction for a Future Life, one in the Hills of Tuscany called…

Life in Color with David Attenborough uses innovative technology to explore nature from a fresh perspective to show how animals use color to survive and thrive in the wild. You have to see it for yourself to understand how awe-inspiring and beautiful it is. This docuseries, as it says on the…

Jacqueline Detwiler-George recently published an article in Popular Mechanics called “Can Science Cure Death? It Sure Looks Like It.” (The article is behind a paywall on Popular Mechanics, but in case you don’t subscribe, you can read the full article here) The article contains a number of interesting tidbits, including this:…

I recently rediscovered Rumi’s touching poem “The Guest House”. It’s such a beautiful and profound way to describe being human, and a masterful description of how to skillfully navigate life’s vicissitudes. May we all cultivate the courage and wisdom to greet life’s inescapable pain with lightness and even laughter.

Years ago, I used to think the universe was a vast, cold dark, empty place to which my existence mattered not even the tiniest bit. Then I listened to a Radiolab podcast that changed my perspective. The episode explores how we see color. And color, of course, is a function of…

Sometimes I don’t hit deadlines. I greatly admire people who do. David McRaney is one of those people. He’s the host of the You Are Not So Smart Podcast.. Last week David was a guest on the School for Good Living Podcast. During our interview, he told me an incredible story about a time…

A teacher of mine once asked, “If you could travel in time and go forward or backward five thousand years, but couldn’t take anything with you—no books or photographs, no tools or technology—what could you possibly tell the people you’d meet that might help them to live healthier, happier lives?”…

I have not yet encountered a problem in life that I couldn’t solve on a whiteboard. For example: Want a profitable company? Easy—just make sure that your revenues are greater than your expenses. Be fit and healthy? No problem—avoid junk food, eat clean and exercise regularly. Write a book? It’s…

I used to think that desire was binary—that you either have it or you don’t. You either want to write a book or you don’t. You either want to be fit and healthy or you don’t. You either want to be a good parent or manager or you don’t. You…

Happy International Dance Day! A friend of mine once asked me, “What if you were so happy that all that was left was to dance?” Writer Aldous Huxley once said, “After silence that which comes nearest to expressing the inexpressible is music.” Music I’ve been using to help me create…

When I saw my dad after his legs were amputated, he was pretty out of it. The hospital staff wheeled him out of the operating room while he was still under anesthesia. He was in a lot of pain. His diabetes had progressed to a point where it made sense…

The Merton Prayer is a humble and moving expression of prayer.  It’s found in Thomas Merton’s Thoughts in Solitude. Merton was an American monk who explored Eastern thought as part of his his study of mystic practice. He was one of the first Western religious thinkers to initiate dialogue with prominent Asian spiritual figures,…

“What’s life about?” It’s my favorite question for Uber drivers and podcast guests. I’ve opened every one of my School for Good Living Podcast interviews over the last three years with it. That’s because when I meet someone, I want to know how they see the world, how their mind works and…

I’m not a morning person. Believe me I’ve tried. (Sorry Miracle Morning.) For the better part of my life, if I was ever awake to see 5AM, or the sun rise, or to hear the birds begin chirping, it was probably because I’d stayed up all night. In other words,…

Best-selling author Ann Patchett has written a thoughtful essay called “How to Practice” that explores living, dying, and accumulating and letting go of possessions in between. Here are a couple of passages I found particularly insightful: “In any practice, there will be tests. That’s why we call it a practice—so we’ll…